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		<title>The Tasks Entrusted to Us (Jan 22 in worship)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 17:14:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The tasks that have been entrusted to us are often difficult. Almost everything that matters is difficult, and everything matters. - Rainer Maria Rilke Every time you turn around Jesus is calling somebody, and the invitation is always the same, “Follow me.” There is a good reason for both the frequency of the call and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=156&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;">The tasks that have been entrusted to us are often difficult.<br />
Almost everything that matters is difficult, and everything matters.<br />
- Rainer Maria Rilke</p>
<p>Every time you turn around Jesus is calling somebody, and the invitation is always the same, “Follow me.” There is a good reason for both the frequency of the call and the repetition <a href="http://bocrowe.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/glimpse-of-x.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-157" title="glimpse of x" src="http://bocrowe.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/glimpse-of-x-e1327079533777.jpg?w=112&#038;h=150" alt="" width="112" height="150" /></a>of its invitation. Jesus <em>is</em> always calling, both those who have never heard, and even those of us who have begun to respond. And the invitation <em>is</em> always the same. The call is simple, “Follow me.”</p>
<p>Of course, what it means to follow Jesus is not simple; or, at least, we Christians have made it complicated. At any rate, on Sunday we will reflect on what it means for our faith community, the Overland Park Christian Church, to follow Jesus. In order to be the community God wants us to be, we must see clearly to the heart of our mission; the reason behind the tasks entrusted to us, because they do matter and, yes, they are often difficult. We have chosen obedience to a new call from God that will ask a sacrifice of us all in one form or another, and to bring it to completion will require one thing above all, a glimpse of the Christ. There we will find our motivation, encouragement, and empowerment. Let’s seek that glimpse together on Sunday.</p>
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		<title>Like a Mighty River; Reflections on Justice</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 21:48:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Let justice roll down like a mighty river, let righteous flow on and on.&#8221; - From Let Justice Roll Down, by Chris Christensen As you know, on Monday our country will observe its annual MLK Celebration. This affords us a perfect opportunity to reflect a bit on justice, and especially on our role in building [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=150&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;">&#8220;Let justice roll down like a mighty river, let righteous flow on and on.&#8221;<br />
- From <em>Let Justice Roll Down</em>, by Chris Christensen</p>
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<p>As you know, on Monday our country will observe its annual MLK Celebration. This affords us a perfect opportunity to reflect a bit on justice, and especially on our role in building a just society. I was once told in no uncertain terms that I should not speak on the Bible&#8217;s perspective on justice because it creates a conflict for those who don&#8217;t share it. I gotta be honest, to <a href="http://bocrowe.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/river-of-justice.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-153" title="river of justice" src="http://bocrowe.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/river-of-justice.jpg?w=150&#038;h=115" alt="" width="150" height="115" /></a>avoid the Bible&#8217;s demand for justice one would have to ignore a whole bunch of it, or willfully distort it. From David and the classical prophets to Jesus and Paul &#8211; cover to cover as it were &#8211; the Bible&#8217;s mandate for justice is both clear and pervasive.</p>
<p>This does not mean, however, that a predetermined, rigid understanding of what would constitute a just society is readily available. In fact, there’s a significant distance between God’s requirement that we work for justice, and how we will get there in our society. That distance should be full of prayer, soul-searching, study, and discussion with others; but in the end God’s appeal for justice is not political… it doesn’t align us with any political party or particular perspective. How much morality should we expect of corporations? We must talk about it. What is a fair wage for workers? Come, let us reason together. When does executive compensation outstrip workers pay to the point that it becomes exploitation? There&#8217;s no easy answer here, but the question demands reflection. Does our national assistance program help folk or keep them tied to the dole? Again, this question requires continual discussion and refinement.</p>
<p>God doesn’t require us to reach consensus on every aspect of such issues, but God expects us to examine them in good faith, and to reach decisions based not on resentment, reaction, or anger; but decisions based on concern for all, a desire for their well-being, and a willingness to take their needs seriously. On Sunday we will do some of this, along with prayer and praise.</p>
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		<title>18-40-275. What&#8217;s at Stake</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Oct 2011 13:38:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I find it ironic that many of the people ridiculing the Occupy movement do so in defense of an upwardly mobile society in America. That is to say,in defense of  the ability to improve one&#8217;s situation the &#8220;old fashioned&#8221; way, by diligent effort.  That possibility is precisely what is at stake in our current situation. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=146&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find it ironic that many of the people ridiculing the Occupy movement do so in defense of an upwardly mobile society in America. That is to say,in defense of  the ability to improve one&#8217;s situation the &#8220;old fashioned&#8221; way, by diligent effort.  That possibility is precisely what is at stake in our current situation. Given changes in technology, cultural mood, and concentration of financial power, the distribution of the &#8220;American Pie&#8221; has skewed beyond the realm of reason, at least in a society that ostensibly values equality of opportunity and social responsibility (i.e. making sure my exercise of freedom doesn&#8217;t oppress others). According to a just<a href="http://bocrowe.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/a-pie.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-147" title="a pie" src="http://bocrowe.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/a-pie.jpg?w=150&#038;h=102" alt="" width="150" height="102" /></a> released CBO study, over the past 30 years the lowest income earners have seen their slice increase by 18%, middle income earners by 40%, and the highest level by 275%. The first two don&#8217;t fare very well when compared to cost of living increases over 30 years, while the highest level&#8230; well, you do the math.</p>
<p>The legitimate concern associated with the Occupy movement is not about entitlements, bail-outs, or other government hand-outs; rather, it is a concern about equitable distribution of legitimate earnings. As a Christian, I don&#8217;t care about the label &#8220;Occupy movement,&#8221; but I share a deep concern for equitable distribution.</p>
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		<title>Colorless Children&#8230; and Adults (from the RELĀT blog)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 17:02:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I watched her go uncelebrated into the second grade, a colorless child, gray among the orange and yellow, attached too much to corners and to other people’s sunshine. She colors the rainbow brown and leaves balloons unopened in their packages. Oh, who will touch this colorless child? Who will plant alleluias in her heart and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=135&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;">I watched her go uncelebrated into the second grade, a colorless child, gray among the orange and yellow, attached too much to corners and to other people’s sunshine. She colors the rainbow brown and leaves balloons unopened in their packages. Oh, who will touch this colorless child? Who will plant alleluias in her heart and send her dancing into all the colors of God? Or will she be left like an unwrapped package on the kitchen table— too dull for anyone to take the trouble? Does God think we&#8217;re her keeper?<br />
- Ann Weems (adapted for worship)</p>
<p>I love the poetry of Ann Weems, so I want to be forthright and tell you I adapted the poem cited above for our worship needs this week. In short, I changed the word greenless to colorless. I did so to compare colorless children (of any age) to all the colors of God, which are vibrant, rich, bright, and shimmering. To be sure, her image is deeper and richer than mine. Greenless points both to colorless and to the lack of fecundity or fertility; like a wasted, withered tree  incapable of bearing fruit. Nevertheless, for good or ill I simplified the image for our use this week.</p>
<p>That being said, I would like to comment on Children&#8217;s Sabbath, which we will celebrate this Sunday. When I read (and reread) the above cited poem, it&#8217;s difficult to deci<a href="http://bocrowe.wordpress.com/?attachment_id=505" rel="attachment wp-att-505"><img class="alignright" title="paint church 5" src="http://wecanrelate.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/paint-church-5.jpg?w=150&#038;h=99" alt="" width="150" height="99" /></a>de where to focus. It was written, of course, to raise our awareness of (and pique our conscience concerning) the plight of children in our world who are abandoned and bereft of opportunity; opportunity for the colors in life represented by love, joy, creativity, self esteem, education, health, home, nutrition&#8230; need I continue? I pray with Marian Wright Edelman of the Children&#8217;s Defense Fund that we will recover the courage to stand for and with these colorless children.</p>
<p>It strikes me, however, that the poem refers equally to adults who have lost their color; that is to say, that somewhere along the way they lost the spontaneity, sense of wonder, simplicity, openness, and joy that mark the unique spirituality of children. And how can we help the colorless children if we, too, have lost our color? I propose that we take the time to explore this notion, and make the effort to recover our childlike spirit and dance into all the colors of God, taking all God&#8217;s Children with us.</p>
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		<title>In Search of a Golden Calf (from the Relate blog)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 20:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our worship gathering on Sunday will focus on the story of the golden calf found in Exodus 32.1-14. So the Relate gang thought it would be cool to have a golden calf to display on Sunday. We checked with import stores, craft stores, garden statuary stores and more, and couldn&#8217;t find an acceptable calf for [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=126&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our worship gathering on Sunday will focus on the story of the golden calf found in Exodus 32.1-14. So the Relate gang thought it would be cool to have a golden calf to display on Sunday. We checked with import stores, craft stores, garden statuary stores and more, and couldn&#8217;t find an acceptable calf for less than $1,000. And even at that we would have to paint it gold ourselves! So the bad news is we won&#8217;t have a golden calf statue on Sunday.</p>
<p>Something tells me, however, that we don&#8217;t really need a statue. We tend to carry a good many golden calves around with us much of the time. That is to say, we tend to create our own gods to worship. Our golden calf <a href="http://bocrowe.wordpress.com/?attachment_id=485" rel="attachment wp-att-485"><img class="alignright" title="calf 3" src="http://wecanrelate.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/calf-3.jpg?w=140&#038;h=150" alt="" width="140" height="150" /></a>may be created by addiction, greed, fear, or the effort to avoid the God whose worship requires self sacrifice; but for whatever reason, we offer up our worship and devotion to our custom created god instead of remaining faithful to God.</p>
<p>On Sunday we will take time to identify our personal golden calf, and seek together to discern how to put it aside. Between now and then, we invite you to reflect on the following prayer:</p>
<p>O God, our golden calf has an insatiable appetite. “Bring me all your ornaments,” it demands; “Bring me everything that glitters.” We thought the golden calf was dead, or the invention of ancient story tellers. We thought the golden calf was gone for good. But no – like a stubborn pest that will not go away, like shame, like desire, it gores our spirits still, demanding to be fed. We know it’s audacious to ask for your help God; after all, we ourselves have created our calf. But we do ask God, because we know that only your grace, only your compassion can save us from our own greed; can set us on a right path; can transform our spirit and make us anew. Spirit of God whom we adore, melt and mold us anew as we offer our praise. Amen</p>
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		<title>The Quest for Peace and Healing</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Sep 2011 04:07:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;We look for peace, but find no good; for a time of healing, but there is terror instead.&#8221; - Jeremiah 14.19c Sunday is the tenth anniversary of that infamous September tragedy usually referred to in shorthand simply as 9/11. In its immediate aftermath it became clear that ours would be a long quest for peace [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=120&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;">&#8220;We look for peace, but find no good;<br />
for a time of healing, but there is terror instead.&#8221;<br />
- Jeremiah 14.19c</p>
<p>Sunday is the tenth anniversary of that infamous September tragedy usually referred to in shorthand simply as 9/11. In its immediate aftermath it became clear that ours would be a long quest for peace and healing. We went to war in Iraq and Afghanistan, lashed out at all things Arab, and have now execute<a href="http://bocrowe.wordpress.com/?attachment_id=426" rel="attachment wp-att-426"><img class="alignright" title="911 4" src="http://wecanrelate.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911-41.jpg?w=120&#038;h=90" alt="" width="120" height="90" /></a>d Osama bin Laden. Nevertheless it seems we have never  quite understood <em>how</em> to seek peace and healing, because I still see a fractious and divided people, continued calls to hold Islam responsible for the tragedy, counter terrorism profiling on the rise, and contentious attitudes about the role of faith in the upcoming commemoration. I am reminded of the prophet Jeremiah&#8217;s words cited above, which seem to describe our situation. Why have we not found peace? This is the question we will ponder on Sunday. I tend to think that fear holds our hearts in a profound sleep &#8211; one that Hildegard of Bingen calls the ancient sleep of the heart &#8211; keeping us separated, withdrawn, cocooned, isolated even while walking in the light of day; unable to embrace the beauty and goodness of life, or to fully engage others in relationships based on compassion and good will. I will share more of my thoughts on Sunday; in the interim I am interested to know what you think&#8230;</p>
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		<title>I Am a Rock (from the Relate blog)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 22:44:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Or am I? Depends on what you mean by rock. In the song &#8220;I Am a Rock,&#8221; Simon &#38; Garfunkel (one of my favorite duos from back in the day) use  rock as a metaphor for being withdrawn, aloof, independent&#8230; totally alone. Take, for example, the second verse in which Simon sings, &#8220;I&#8217;ve built walls, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=105&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Or am I? Depends on what you mean by rock. In the song &#8220;I Am a Rock,&#8221; Simon &amp; Garfunkel (one of my favorite duos from back in the day) use  rock as a metaphor for <a href="http://bocrowe.wordpress.com/?attachment_id=398" rel="attachment wp-att-398"><img class="alignright" title="sng2" src="http://wecanrelate.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/sng2.jpg?w=86&#038;h=76" alt="" width="86" height="76" /></a>being withdrawn, aloof, independent&#8230; totally alone. Take, for example, the second verse in which Simon sings, &#8220;I&#8217;ve built walls, a fortress deep and mighty, that none may penetrate. I have no need of friendship; friendship causes pain. It&#8217;s laughter and it&#8217;s loving I disdain. I am a rock, I am an island.&#8221;</p>
<p>This is far from the sense Jesus intends when he calls Simon a rock in the dialogue found in Matthew 16.13-20. This rock refers to the strong foundation of faith on which God can build. There is a sense in which Jesus is looking a &#8220;fer piece&#8221; down the road, because Simon (renamed Peter by Jesus) is anything but a sure foundation at this point in his journey. He will have to be transformed completely; he will have to embrace all of life with its celebrations, growth, suffering, failure and humiliation, and even death. He will have to let God build on the foundation of faith every step along the way. Then and only then will he be a rock.</p>
<p>I won&#8217;t speak for you, but I rarely feel rock solid in my spiritual life. I feel more like the fumbling, stumbling, denying Peter we have come to know and love from the gospel stories. But that&#8217;s the point. Jesus is looking a &#8220;fer piece&#8221; down the road when he calls each of us rock. We, too, must become rocks by embracing all of life and allowing God to transform us each step of the way. And, one last thing, we can&#8217;t do it alone. On Sunday (August 21) we will explore this image and its meaning for our faith journeys. Between now and then I think I&#8217;ll listen to some S &amp; G.</p>
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		<title>Life as a Parable (from the Relate Blog)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 20:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We had a stirring discussion last Sunday (July 24) about &#8220;why&#8221; Jesus taught in parables. We often ask about the &#8220;what&#8221; of parables, e.g. &#8220;What in the world do these things mean?&#8221; but we seldom wonder about the &#8220;why.&#8221; I think this is a very important question. Think about it. If anyone is qualified to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=85&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had a stirring discussion last Sunday (July 24) about &#8220;why&#8221; Jesus taught in parables. We often ask about the &#8220;what&#8221; of parables, e.g. &#8220;What in the world do these things mean?&#8221; but we seldom wonder about the &#8220;why.&#8221; I think this is a very important question. Think about it. If anyone is qualified to describe God and provide precise theological statements, it would be God incarnate, aka Jesus. Yet Jesus never describes God, and never really talks about things like doctrine and religious beliefs (except to criticize narrow and rigid beliefs). His best known teaching, the Sermon on the Mount, makes no statement at all about what to believe, but offers lots of suggestions about how to live a spiritually vital life.</p>
<p>I think the parables do the same thing. Jesus tells stories for two reasons. Firstly, as a sign of respect for the mystery of God. Jesus knows that we can neither comprehend nor describe God in any adequate way. God is always &#8220;more&#8221; than any words can convey. So Jesus tells stories that convey hints about what God is like. Secondly, Jesus tells stories of everyday life because that, he knows, is where we will find God. We don&#8217;t find God in a statement of belief, in a creed, or in some other written word. We find God in an incarnate word; that is to say, in our experience.</p>
<p>This, I am convinced, explains the significance of story in the ministry and teaching of Jesus. He does not counsel us to sit around talking &#8220;about&#8221; God in statements of belief, but rather to pay close attention to our lives, and to discover the many ways God becomes present to us. We may not be able to know and describe God intellectually; but we can choose to feel God&#8217;s presence &#8211; God&#8217;s real presence &#8211; in the forgiveness of a parent or a friend, in the compassion of a stranger, or in the experience of a sunrise.</p>
<p>Rainer Maria Rilke, my favorite poet, understands the difference between talking (always inadequately) about God, and feeling the touch of God in our lives. He says as much in the following poem:</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Why am I reaching again for the brushes?<br />
When I paint your portrait, God, nothing happens.<br />
But I can choose to feel you. At my senses’ horizon you appear&#8230;<br />
- Rainer Maria Rilke (adapted)</p>
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		<title>Real Men or New Men?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jun 2011 13:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You know what is typically meant by &#8220;real men&#8221; in our culture: macho, headstrong, ambitious, aggressive&#8230; and they don&#8217;t eat quiche! C S Lewis held up a somewhat different model for men, at least Christian men. I cite it here for all us dads to peruse and practice: “Already the new men are dotted here [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=82&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know what is typically meant by &#8220;real men&#8221; in our culture: macho, headstrong, ambitious, aggressive&#8230; and they don&#8217;t eat quiche! C S Lewis held up a somewhat different model for men, at least Christian men. I cite it here for all us dads to peruse and practice:</p>
<p>“Already the new men are dotted here and there all over the earth.  Every now and then one meets them.  Their voices and faces are different from ours; stronger, quieter, happier, more radiant… They do not draw attention to themselves.  You tend to think that you are being kind to them when they are really being kind to you.  They love you more than other men do, but they need you less.  When you have recognized one of them, you will recognize the next one much more easily.</p>
<p>- C S Lewis (from <em>Mere Christianity</em>)</p>
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		<title>Once upon a Time (from the Relate blog)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bo Crowe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was raised in the Deep South and, as everyone knows, southerners are nothing if not courteous. We weren&#8217;t allowed to use any language that came within a country mile of profanity (cussin&#8217; we called it) so we used euphemisms of all sorts to get our point across. For example, I would never call my [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bocrowe.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5114757&amp;post=79&amp;subd=bocrowe&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was raised in the Deep South and, as everyone knows, southerners are nothing if not courteous. We weren&#8217;t allowed to use any language that came within a country mile of profanity (cussin&#8217; we called it) so we used euphemisms of all sorts to get our point across. For example, I would never call my older sister a liar, but I often accused her of &#8220;tellin&#8217; a story.&#8221; I regret that very much, not so much because of the abuse of my sister (which many would say just goes with the territory&#8230; I love you Bren!), but for the abuse of the wonderfully profound word <em>story</em>. Once upon a time, the stories begin, and they speak to our lives and their meaning in powerful and entertaining ways. Many would argue, and I would agree, that in the end all we have to tell is our story, all we are is our story; and this is a good thing. Let me give you an example.</p>
<p>If you have ever tried to define God, or just understand some of the abstract descriptions offered by theologians, you know how distant these notions feel. The aseity of God is a self evident truth. Ok&#8230; I guess? God can only be described by remotion. What? The Trinity is never confused but always a unity? Huh? Now don&#8217;t get me wrong. I&#8217;m not anti-intellectual; not by a long shot. I live to pose the great questions of life and to seek a glimmer of their truth without holding anything back. But if I want to convey to you what God is and means in my life, I can only tell you a story&#8230;</p>
<p>Like the story of the last time I saw my dad in hospital before his death. I had to leave to fly back to KC, and didn&#8217;t know if I would have a chance to see him again. How could I say goodbye? How could I make sure he understood how much I loved him? I couldn&#8217;t. But as I sat paralyzed on the edge of his bed, God was the sudden assurance that if he didn&#8217;t understand at that time, he would in the near future. In that moment God was the peace I seek in life yet seldom find, God was the vanishing distance between my dad and me that allowed me to hold him close, say I love you, and walk out of the room. We can talk about God for a long, long time. But if you want to know what God means in my life, you&#8217;ll have to listen to my story. Once upon a time&#8230;</p>
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